Customers what look do you prefer? [Archive] - Stripper Web Exotic Dancer Community

Prester_John

03-26-2003, 12:06 PM

What look do I like? Its all relative and a little vague. I can really enjoy any look, as long as it looks natural on the dancer. The school girl look is great on someone who enjoys having that look. If she looks uncomfortable with it, or indifferent, it loses its attraction for me. I guess some dancers wear stuff they arent comfortable in order to portray a look they think the public wants to see. Most of the time their discomfort is palpable.

Have a look YOU like to wear makes it infinitely more attractive to me. AND thats just my opinion.

PJ

Magnus_Malibu

03-27-2003, 03:28 PM

Brandi, I guess it's the old saying "different strokes for different folks." I was in a club once and saw this girl dancing with her glasses on and just thought it was really kind of funny and ended up buying a dance from her. I don't know what it was, but any girl who would wear eyeglasses while stripping- I have to talk to. And she actually turned out to be a really nice and fun person to talk to, and really made my visit.

03-28-2003, 03:09 AM

I prefer a lack of tattoos and piercings.

LEIGH_LANDON

03-28-2003, 03:27 AM

Reading thru the posts it really comes down to one thing - YOU. Knowing your own personal attributes and downfalls and compimenting your assets while minimizing any flaws. I would ignore what others are wearing and go with what makes you feel sexy and or attractive. That alone will give you an air of confidence and that is pretty sexy all on its own regardless of your outfit. I am also a firm believer in "skin to win" --- show some skin, show alot of skin!
Go to Trashy or Fredericks (or whatever is in your area) and try on a bunch of outfits see what flatters you the best and go with it! ;)

anabolic

03-28-2003, 05:59 AM

Ok I was looking around the club last night and noticed that there was a lot of girls sporting the school girl look. I have personally never tried this look, it is cute though.

So what look do you men prefer the sexy vixen look, girl next door, or the school girl. Im sure there are many other looks I just can't think of them right now.
school girl is hot, but too common-dress like a teacher-short skirt very high heels, glasses, stockings...that would be sexy and unique

03-28-2003, 03:37 PM

Hey, she asked, I answered. I'm not saying people with tattoos and/or piercings aren't entitled to the same rights as other citizens. I just don't happen to find that look the least bit sexy. The dancer doesn't necessarily have to look like the aforementioned virginal "schoolgirl" to get my attention, but ... geez, how about the normal-woman look? That's part of the reason why I find my favorite dancer so attractive. Then there's her personality ...

Hugh_Jass

03-28-2003, 08:04 PM

....a lack of tattoos and piercings....well isn't that nice....

Tattoos are a major turn off for me too. Unfortunately I've noticed the majority of dancers seem to have them now. I can deal with a small tattoo on an ankle or hip, but some girls just go way overboard with huge back peices and cheap crudely done crap all over their bodies. Its just disturbing.

To answer the original question though, stockings and heels hook me every time.

doc-catfish

03-29-2003, 03:40 AM

So what look do you men prefer the sexy vixen look, girl next door, or the school girl. Im sure there are many other looks I just can't think of them right now.

I prefer the dancer that can do all three of those in a single night.
;)

Chuck149

03-29-2003, 07:33 AM

has anyone mentioned the NAKED look ? ;)

electric_head

03-29-2003, 08:11 AM

Naked Naked really Naked!

Ishmael

03-30-2003, 11:18 AM

Howdy Ladies and Gentlemen!

New to your message board -- lots of great insight here

I think that you'll find as many different likes and dislikes as there are men in the world, but if you are looking to hit the "trying to please most of the people most of the time" mark, try these:

1) Schoolgirl (Plaid pleated skirt, white silk blouse, knee-high white stockings, hair in pigtails) -- appeals to the guys who like the younger, more petite girls. While it's a turn on, I agree that it's becomming overdone.

2) Business woman (Suit jacket and mini-skirt, natural thigh-high stockings, high heels, hair in a bun/hair down long, glasses) - this look seems to appeal to guys who either want to date their boss, or like to be dominated (go figure).

3) Britney Spears - (Hip-huggers w/ bell-bottoms, belly shirt, big hair, lots of makeup, glitter) - self-explanitory.

4) Athletic (short gym shorts, sports bra, short spiky hair, ankle socks, sneakers) - guys like the "I Kick Ass" aspect of that look, helps them relate to you on a 'buddy' level.

5) Honeymooner (Silk teddy or boustier, matching panties, garter belt, thigh-highs) - The ultimate idea of what every guy in the club wants to/wanted to marry. Hey, it's a fantasy, right?

6) One of the Guys (men's dress shirt (over-sized) and loose tie, panties, gym socks) - This looks is what we want to see at home lounging around when we get home. It appeals to the 'honey, I'm home - let's get it on' sense.

7) Police/Military uniform (Policeman shirt and skirt, hair up, hat; Fatigues, Camoflauge hat, boots) - "Something about a man in uniform..." also applies to the ladies.

Those are just my suggestions for all-around fits. Bear in mind, that there are a hundred others out there that will turn on guys as well, but those I listed above seem to be the most broad-appealing looks.

Just my $.02 worth.

Call me ][shmael

sol_de_pr2

03-30-2003, 11:21 AM

Naked Naked really Naked!Well, on second thought, yes, naked is the way. It's just when clothes are required sexiness is paramount when dressing to strip.

chaneldupare

11-17-2006, 02:22 AM

As a dancer, you should have your own look, but I keep an assortment of fantasies just in case. I had a guy pay me $300 one time just to put on an army girl outfit I had. Since then, I keep a maid, nurse, sailor, army, school-girl, pin-up, roller-derbie, and business woman outfit which all continue to pay for themselves in full. The one thing I would stay away from is looking like every other stripper out there. Get creative with it (bandanas, wil jewelry, bold colors, rerto go go get-ups) The last thing you want to wear is a pink tube mini dress with a pir of clear stilettos and cheap jewelry. This is a business, invest.

cameronfl

11-17-2006, 08:57 AM

this thread just proves the point I tried to make to my clubs owners when they switched our dress code...not ONE person said GOWNS!!!! Gowns are NOT a fantasy!! Esp when EVERY girl is wearing them.

Eques

11-18-2006, 04:34 PM

Cocktail dress. Not something for a wedding, but more like something you'd see a risqué tango dancer wear.

/edit/ I made this post before reading the one directly above /edit/

BlackSheEp3

11-18-2006, 06:29 PM

girl next door/schoolgirl/ not into the "punk/biker/gothic look. As for tats and piercings....a small tat is okay. Not into the big/bold ones. Piercings..just the ears/belly button, no where else for me.
Just my 3 cents =)

GeorgeBailey

11-18-2006, 06:31 PM

Echoing other posts, I like most any look (with the exception of tats and piercings) that best suits the individual dancer. Seems to me a look that makes the dancer feel good about herself may make for the best sales. I think I've read here before that having the right attitude is the most powerful sales tool of all.

ViolaStrings

11-19-2006, 09:42 AM

this thread just proves the point I tried to make to my clubs owners when they switched our dress code...not ONE person said GOWNS!!!! Gowns are NOT a fantasy!! Esp when EVERY girl is wearing them.

All the big money clubs are gown clubs. Why? Because the guys who spend the most money, middle aged guys, like something as close to sexy bland as possible - elegant, no creativity, etc. If you require a certain kind of gown, then there's no room for dancers to be creative with their outfits and NO possiblity of a girl wearing a stupid looking trashy outfit.

Mastridonicus

11-19-2006, 10:34 AM

I dunno. The type I prefer (and incidentally why I don't seek it) is the kind that just is... like emitting self-confidence and sexuality. Outfit/naked doesn't matter. Not even a little. If she has the look she has it, and from the moment she walks out the dressing room she knows I'm an easy prey... God I need to be stronger at this.

I mean this people extort everything I have to spare without even taking off a shred of clothing.

"Wow, you're cute... I mean that"
"Here's a 20."
"Did I say cute? I meant SEXY"
"Here's 5 more 20s"
"That's a cool shirt, did you read the work by Lewis Carroll? Played the game? Or are you just wearing "What is the use of a book, without pictures or conversations?" for laughs?"
"Here's the rest of my money.... I have to go to the bathroom."

greentea

11-19-2006, 03:28 PM

Ok I was looking around the club last night and noticed that there was a lot of girls sporting the school girl look. I have personally never tried this look, it is cute though.

So what look do you men prefer the sexy vixen look, girl next door, or the school girl. Im sure there are many other looks I just can't think of them right now.

personally I think the school girl look is sexy...however any dancer who wears a short skirt and platofrm heels is A-OK in my book.It doesnt "have" to be a school girl outfit.

BrunetteGoddess

11-19-2006, 03:32 PM

Eh, I think as long as you look polished,sexy, and confident, it wont really matter what you wear.

greentea

11-19-2006, 06:36 PM

Eh, I think as long as you look polished,sexy, and confident, it wont really matter what you wear.

very true.

Ive seen some really sexy school girl outfits,and Ive seen some really trashy not so flattering ones,it all depends on the girl and how she sports it.

cameronfl

11-19-2006, 07:00 PM

All the big money clubs are gown clubs.

That may be true in some places(and in environment..as the gown clubs are all bigger and more expensively decorated)...but I've always made more at the smaller clubs...the gown clubs have all been eye candy clubs...as in the guys come to sit and look while pretty girls in sparkly dresses walked the catwalk...but they rarely spent a significant amount.
I've found that the "dive" neighborhood type clubs are more likely to be filled with guys having fun rather than quietly sitting and watching. And when guys are having fun. they usually spend more.
This may not be true in all places..I'm sure in some areas gown clubs are the place to be...but i was very disappointed when my current club went gown. And everyones money went down by at least half when they did it.

ViolaStrings

11-19-2006, 09:43 PM

That may be true in some places(and in environment..as the gown clubs are all bigger and more expensively decorated)...but I've always made more at the smaller clubs...the gown clubs have all been eye candy clubs...as in the guys come to sit and look while pretty girls in sparkly dresses walked the catwalk...but they rarely spent a significant amount.
I've found that the "dive" neighborhood type clubs are more likely to be filled with guys having fun rather than quietly sitting and watching. And when guys are having fun. they usually spend more.
This may not be true in all places..I'm sure in some areas gown clubs are the place to be...but i was very disappointed when my current club went gown. And everyones money went down by at least half when they did it.

An decent girl can make great money in a dive bar because all the girls are ugly. A career stripper who actively cultivates a great image can make literally $50-250K a year working full time in a gown club in a big city.

Mr Hyde

11-19-2006, 09:52 PM

I think it's easier to say what looks I don't like

I don't like goth or anything close to it

I don't like skankiness

I don't like costumes

I Don't like tats and piercings (ears and navel are ok)

Other than that, as has been said, as long as you look good and are polished, it doesn't matter much what you wear, as long as it's got some vague sex appeal.

cameronfl

11-20-2006, 08:51 AM

An decent girl can make great money in a dive bar because all the girls are ugly. A career stripper who actively cultivates a great image can make literally $50-250K a year working full time in a gown club in a big city.

Again it depends on the city. Here, in all the gown clubs i've worked at (except the one I'm at now which is basically a dive bar makeing the girls wear gowns..ugh...not a true gown club) guys come for two reasons. 1) to be in a big fancy well known club that "happens" to have naked girls to look at or 2) for sex(yes...they are all ridden with extras girls)

I'm sure a true gown club in say NYC would be as you said...but the whole club scene differs from place to place.

And I've worked in plenty of dive bars that had really pretty girls.I take offense to the comment that ALL girls at these clubs are ugly. It all depends on your taste. When I think is pretty may not be what someone else does. Which is why I liked these clubs so much. They understood that not every guy wants a carbon copy Barbie Doll...and hired a good variety of girls. And in most of these places...all the girls made money.

Just requiring a gown is not necessarily enough to make a girl look classy. I've seen SO many girls who bought cheap gowns just to be able to work and they looked like crap in them. I think that whatever makes the girl FEEL sexy...will make her LOOK sexy.

hot4ablackchick

11-22-2006, 10:09 AM

I would love to see more dancers in GOOD gowns. I really like skirts/dresses on entertainers, but it doesn't really matter what she is wearing as long as she looks good in it and the outfit does not come from walmart. I like Girls who know what outfits flatter their figures and what colors bring them out. TOO MANY entertainers I see nowadays DO NOT know how to dress!!!!

Madcap

11-22-2006, 11:46 AM

Not a fan of the schoolgirl look. I preferr a woman to look like a woman.

As for the looks i DO like, honestly, it all depends on the girl. Some can pull off the trampy look, some manage to swing the innocent look. It's a hard thing to explain.

Smokeless

11-22-2006, 10:52 PM

ViolaStrings

11-26-2006, 11:15 AM

Again it depends on the city. Here, in all the gown clubs i've worked at (except the one I'm at now which is basically a dive bar makeing the girls wear gowns..ugh...not a true gown club) guys come for two reasons. 1) to be in a big fancy well known club that "happens" to have naked girls to look at or 2) for sex(yes...they are all ridden with extras girls)

I'm sure a true gown club in say NYC would be as you said...but the whole club scene differs from place to place.

And I've worked in plenty of dive bars that had really pretty girls.I take offense to the comment that ALL girls at these clubs are ugly. It all depends on your taste. When I think is pretty may not be what someone else does. Which is why I liked these clubs so much. They understood that not every guy wants a carbon copy Barbie Doll...and hired a good variety of girls. And in most of these places...all the girls made money.

Just requiring a gown is not necessarily enough to make a girl look classy. I've seen SO many girls who bought cheap gowns just to be able to work and they looked like crap in them. I think that whatever makes the girl FEEL sexy...will make her LOOK sexy.

I've worked in gown clubs that have a huge variety of girls, not all Barbies, but all gorgeous in their own way.

I'm not a supermodel and the least I ever made in Fort Lauderdale (and I'm not an extras girl) is $800.

I prefer gown clubs because they're upscale and I fit in there with the middle aged white guys better than I usually do at the neighborhood dive bars.

Sectumsempra

11-26-2006, 01:30 PM

I like the school girl, girl next door, and sexy punk chick looks.

I'd also like to see a girl start out wearing "average cute girl" clothes, like something your average cute girl would wear around campus on a hot summer day, like a tank top and skirt, and strip out of them....

CheetahTim

11-27-2006, 12:23 AM

Like a current New Country song says, "I Like My Women A Little On The Trashy Side." Yep, trashy is good but the plaid school skirt thing works very well also. (I'm such a perve I sometimes worry myself.}:D )

sexy_celeste

11-27-2006, 01:27 AM

I was in a club once and saw this girl dancing with her glasses on and just thought it was really kind of funny and ended up buying a dance from her. I don't know what it was, but any girl who would wear eyeglasses while stripping- I have to talk to.

Lol, I wear my glasses a lot of the time, especially in hayfever season, cos my contacts irriate, when Im already icky from allergies.

I stand out, so the guys ask for the 'girl with glasses'

CheetahTim

11-27-2006, 01:36 AM

There's one girl at my local club who dresses kind of gothic and wears these black horn-rimmed glasses while dancing. Definetly hot! Another dancerl does the school girl thing and wears granny glasses. Another definete turn on.;)

Star Player

12-03-2006, 07:35 PM

Girl next door - bikini clad and smokin and drinkin - a little like she's a trashy bad, horny trailer gal / housewife. The gal in the pic below was dancer I met at Strip Club, been doing her over 2.5 yr OTC. When I met her she was in black see thru nightie, bikini panties and looked sexy as hell.....after 10 lap dances it was so hard it took 45 min to go down on way home, thought I mite have to go to emergency room

Mastridonicus

12-03-2006, 08:03 PM

Bullet wounds totally turn me on.
And Star Player, if I was the person in your avatar, I'd have your nuts in a jar for that.

Skywalker

12-03-2006, 09:34 PM

I'm into the trashy, skanky look. I LOVE tattoos and piercings...nothing is hotter! I've never been with a woman with a lower back tattoo, but hope to be someday.

Mastridonicus

12-03-2006, 09:47 PM

I'm into the trashy, skanky look. I LOVE tattoos and piercings...nothing is hotter! I've never been with a woman with a lower back tattoo, but hope to be someday.

Hint:

Be more descriptive.

You just pissed off EVERYBODY. LOL.

All the good skanks have piercings and tattoos. But TRASHY ones have breasts.....and VA JAY JAY's

Chrissy68

12-03-2006, 10:50 PM

^^ :rotfl:
you forgot about hair. they all have hair too.

Mastridonicus

12-03-2006, 11:09 PM

Would You Pay Attention To Your Game?!

She's gonna kick your ass

Chrissy68

12-03-2006, 11:25 PM

no, it's close actually :P

sheeee's the one not paying attention... *ahem*

Mastridonicus

12-03-2006, 11:31 PM

No actually I'm betting she's coming back and going to wupp your scrabblin ass.

CheetahTim

12-03-2006, 11:53 PM

I'm into the trashy, skanky look. I LOVE tattoos and piercings...nothing is hotter! I've never been with a woman with a lower back tattoo, but hope to be someday.

AMEN BROTHER! I also think tattoos and piercing are a turn on. Don't know why. I guess it ups the trash factor, (which is a good thing.) I appreciate a girl who can pull off trashy without overdoing it.;D

I_luv_dancers!

12-04-2006, 04:38 AM

Costume-wise, lots of things can work for me if the girl has the spirit to carry it off.

More skin is better. Teasing is good - like a very short skirt and no undies. A knit tube dress is hot - love the effect of easy access.

I love those thongs that BARELY cover the pubic area, and the straps V out from the butt crack, not like a T back.

I like certain piercings - labia or clit hood, nipple and navel. Will pass on lip, nose, eyebrow etc.

I prefer no tats. I love pretty, smooth, clear, unblemished skin. I'm cool with lower back tats, if that's the only one.

And I agree with CorsicaFire ^^^^^^^^^

Mastridonicus

12-04-2006, 07:06 AM

AMEN BROTHER! I also think tattoos and piercing are a turn on. Don't know why. I guess it ups the trash factor, (which is a good thing.) I appreciate a girl who can pull off trashy without overdoing it.;D

The....Woman in your avatar (no the one on your lap.... :D j/k oh the things we'd do if we where chicks huh?)

I spy....with my little eyes....

A tattoo

And

*Squints*

a pierced ear...

A SKANK! SKKKAAAAAAAAAAANNNNNNKKKK!!!!!

*Riles up the Lynch Mob*

SKANK SHE'S A SKANK she turned me into a newt!